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Managing Meltdowns and shutdowns at school
Understanding and responding to autistic distress
Source: Happy In School Project
This article from the Happy In School Project discusses managing meltdowns and shutdowns in children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), particularly within the school environment. The author highlights the critical need to identify triggers for these intense emotional responses, drawing on a personal experience where a teacher dismissed the existence of triggers for her son's meltdown. The article stresses that meltdowns and shutdowns are not intentional misbehaviour or personal attacks, but rather an overwhelming reaction to sensory overload or emotional distress. It advocates for both parents and educators to cultivate an understanding and empathetic approach. Key strategies include recognising early warning signs, creating a supportive and predictable environment, and offering appropriate coping mechanisms. The piece also underscores the importance of actively listening to neurodiverse individuals, validating their experiences, and adapting teaching methods to accommodate their unique needs. The article champions flexible thinking within the often-rigid school system to better support neurodivergent students and prevent future meltdowns and shutdowns.
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